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All the Smart Intrusions: Death by a Thousand Cuts

We can’t pretend it’s okay when it’s not

Jodi Barnes, PhD
6 min readNov 1, 2019

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This is not about Taylor Swift’s song. This is about living with electronic devices, motivated by yet another unsolicited email.

This one isn’t so bad: Photos of Taipai, Dubrovnik, San Francisco skylines… I linger on Cape Town because half of the frame is mountains. Inexplicably, I tear up.

Far from the madding crowd.

I used to adore traveling into the thick of humanity. Now, I’d rather go on a long walk, look at the creek rise and fall, write letters that require stamps.

I’m not afraid of other people or a terrorist attack. I love learning about other cultures and trying new things. This major shift toward solitude is recent.

Am I experiencing early onset of crotchety? Am I a recluse in late-bloom?

So Many Symptoms, (Seemingly) So Little Choice

I’m tired of the Noise. Not only the sounds, but the screens, even the tactile: I resent having to touch my devices in all their neediness. The icons, apps, taps, platforms…

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Jodi Barnes, PhD
Jodi Barnes, PhD

Written by Jodi Barnes, PhD

Writer and Collaborator-in-Chief of https://www.14wordsforlove.com where small acts of writing, art and conversation create multicultural connections for good.

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