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How To Change Despite Your Feelings

First, relinquish your role as Manager of the Universe

David called to say he and his wife were back from visiting our daughter and her family over the MLK weekend. Technically, David is my ex-husband; more accurately, he is my friend.

There was once a time when our true friendship, post divorce, didn’t exist. No animosity, just what I’d…



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Jodi Barnes, PhD

Jodi Barnes, PhD


Writer and Collaborator-in-Chief of where small acts of writing, art and conversation create multicultural connections for good.