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If We Can Agree on One Thing: We’re Tired

Shaming and blaming are draining. They only gain us wider divides.

Jodi Barnes, PhD
5 min readJan 30, 2020

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Pretend we could put politics aside. (I know, just stay with me here.) Is it possible that Americans agree on anything?

I think so. Even in a country that agrees we are living in an era of extreme political polarization, so extreme that the political has become personal. So extreme that more people are displeased by the thought that their child would marry someone of a different political party than of a different religion.

Some research suggests that it’s not the political polarization as much as our squabbling.

It might just be that most people really don’t like politics. Americans are open to people with all sorts of political and partisan opinions, our research shows — as long as they keep those opinions to themselves. — Klar, Krupnikov & Ryan, (2019), NYT Opinion

As usual, there’s more to the (research) story. The pollsters added questions about frequency and impact on social gatherings: How often a new son/daughter-in-law whose politics were a sharp left or right of theirs talked about…

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Jodi Barnes, PhD

Writer and Collaborator-in-Chief of https://www.14wordsforlove.com where small acts of writing, art and conversation create multicultural connections for good.